Palm Springs Bachelorette Ideas: Why You Need ManServants (2026)
Planning a Palm Springs bachelorette? Here’s my best idea: hire ManServants. It’s a service that sends chivalrous gentlemen in suits to pamper your group — mixing drinks, serving food, taking photos, and generally treating the bride like a queen. We booked one for my friend Janet’s bachelorette and it was the greatest decision ever. They’re still operating in 2026, serving Palm Springs, Los Angeles, and New York.
If you’re planning a bachelorette (or a birthday or any other event), do everyone a favor and get some ManServants! Our ManServant was a total gentleman — super proactive, anticipating needs we didn’t even know we had, all while looking good in a suit. This experience left me wishing for my very own real-life manservant.
What Are ManServants?
ManServants is a service that sends gentlemen in suits to treat women like queens. The men can mix & serve you drinks, feed you food, take your photos, and anything else your heart desires. You also get to pick his name — we chose “Nelly” because Janet’s fiancé is Nelson. ManServants serves Palm Springs, Los Angeles, and New York, and all their gentlemen are vetted and trained.
Our ManServants Experience
On the day of the event, I got a text saying I could communicate with our ManServant on that number and leave any instructions before his arrival. We’d booked him from 3pm–5pm. He showed up to our hotel on time and knocked — but we were still getting ready, so we didn’t answer. Janet didn’t know we’d hired him for her, so luckily he didn’t say anything at the door and we pretended it was just housekeeping. I texted him we’d head to the pool shortly and to meet us there instead.
When we got down to the pool, we didn’t see him at first — and then he surprised us. He walked over to Janet and said, “Hi, I’m Nelly, your ManServant.” It was pretty funny.
First Order of Business: Finding Us Sunchairs
Nelly anticipated we were looking for a spot before we even said anything — asked if we wanted sun or shade, then found four open chairs. We scored a sunbed with a little of both. We had him take pictures with us because 1. he’s cute, and 2. we weren’t quite sure what to have him do yet.
Inflating Our Floatie
Nelly was great at figuring out what we needed. We were about to go to the bar for drinks — he said he’d handle it and brought menus. We were about to inflate our floatie — he told us to relax, he’d do it. So we just lounged on the sunbed giggling. I could get used to this.
Providing Some Shade
Palm Springs was warm and sunny — perfect pool weather — but it got hot. Nelly brought over a parasol for a break from the sun.
Feeding Us Fruit & Serving Drinks
Because why eat fruit by yourself when Nelly can feed you?
Reapplying Sunscreen
Partway through, Nelly helped us reapply sunscreen. No sticky hands for us.
Helping Us Onto the Floaties
Floaties are hard to get onto, especially when three people want the same one. Nelly held it steady so it didn’t tip while we all climbed on.
Taking Photos for Us
We wanted pool photos, so Nelly changed into swim trunks to take them in the pool with us.
Last but Not Least: Eye Candy
Need I say more?
So I definitely recommend getting some ManServants for your next event! And invite me 😀
Verdict: Skip the stripper, hire the gentleman — the best bachelorette decision we ever made.
Planning a California getaway? See my Downtown Napa staycation guide for another birthday-worthy trip idea, or my 10 Instagrammable spots in Oahu if the bachelorette crew wants Hawaii instead.
Frequently Asked Questions
What are ManServants?
ManServants is a service that sends vetted, trained gentlemen in suits to bachelorette parties, birthdays, and events. They mix and serve drinks, serve food, take photos, and pamper the group — it’s elegant, non-cheesy entertainment.
Where is ManServants available?
ManServants currently serves Palm Springs, Los Angeles, and New York. Book directly on their website (manservants.co) and you can even pick your ManServant’s name.
Is ManServants worth it for a bachelorette?
In my experience, absolutely — it was the highlight of our Palm Springs bachelorette. Having someone handle drinks, photos, floaties, and sunscreen meant the whole group actually relaxed. Book at least a 2-hour block (we did 3pm–5pm poolside).
